By Georgia McKee
“Control what you can control, and let go of what you can’t.”
Before every competition, my head coach at Belmont University had us listen to a recording that repeated this phrase while guiding us through a breathing exercise. The goal was to steady our bodies and calm our minds before the game — to stop worrying about all the variables we couldn’t fix: injuries, weather, school. At the time, it felt like a silly pregame ritual. But last weekend, as I packed up to move across the country in the middle of a Texas winter storm, I found myself giving thanks for all that I cannot control.
Because truthfully, I haven’t been able to control what God has done in our midst. Every conversation, every meal, every sacred moment we’ve shared has been the Spirit’s work. God has moved among us in ways I could never have planned or predicted.
When I came to Wilshire in the summer of 2024, I knew I was called to ministry — and that I’d finally get to enjoy real Texas brisket again, not the pork North Carolinians call barbecue. But I had no idea how deeply this community would form me, or how my heart would be set ablaze for the gospel through a church so devoted to living it out.
Sophia and I had just gotten married in Winston-Salem, and 48 hours later we pulled into Resident Row — hopeful, tired and overwhelmed. There was so much we couldn’t control. But Wilshire instantly met us with generous hands, prayerful hearts and gentle spirits. You have taught me that the gospel isn’t just proclaimed but embodied. Through your generous hospitality, your prophetic courage, and your relentless care for one another, you have shown me what the kingdom of God looks like in motion.
Our world needs more people who will link arms through doubt and uncertainty, staying committed to compassion and mercy. We need people who listen deeply, care for the vulnerable, light candles of memory and teach children how to walk in love. You, Wilshire, have done this faithfully. You have given me a living model of the gospel, and I will carry it with me into all that comes next.
Thank you — for your love, your grace and your friendship. This time together has blessed me in more ways than I could have ever imagined. I love you. And I promise, I will visit.